When I arrive at the Montrose, a Scottish pub in Park Slope, I'm relieved to see there's no five-minute bell, no mad dash for the next interview, no frenzied attempt to impress.

She has a bedroom with an en suite bath available in her Bed-Stuy duplex — no pets, please — and she shows off pictures of them. He's not moving till July, and my place has been available for three months." "It's a little like trying to meet someone at a bar, isn't it?

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"I think you can get a vibe and an energy, whether you'd be a good fit or not." I ask her about the guy she was just talking to.

You really have to put yourself out there," she says.

There's a small window of opportunity, and it may never come again." And like the friend who didn't need to play wing-woman anymore for her pal at the bar, I take my leave.

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Speed Roommating is a lot like speed dating, but instead of finding someone to share your life with, you just need to find someone who can share your cramped apartment for the length of your lease.

The organizers, from Spare Room.com, have been hosting regular meetups in Manhattan, and this week they held their first Brooklyn mixer. I ask her if it's disappointing to hear that people are finding someone to work with while she's still looking.